A quick update...
I stiffened all the shocks completely and drove around for a few days then softened them them 1 click (from completely soft/0) on the front and 12 clicks on the rear. The car is a lot less bouncy.
Paired with the Proxes it handles a lot better with much more confidence and feedback
I havnt adjusted the height since installing them, which is good because I found today that its just right for getting on and off the rollers in the garage, and I have a lower strut brace to fit so things may get interesting...